Re-locate Yourself in a Different World-Type/ Environment
Framework of Issues
Create a world-type of your own; do it by changing your preferences.
Reprioritize your relationship with the world and its various occupations and your obligations towards them.
This will help you on the issue of changing your fixed position/ dominant mode. Remember, as you are able to change your turn of mind or fixed position towards the issues of life, you also change the way you continue to approach the world. Don’t look merely at your own issues, but rise above from this narrow circle and look at the issues of your near and dear ones. Remember that even in a single home, the issues of a daughter/son in a college are different from those of their father working in a factory
First understand the issue that a person’s link with the world around is fundamental in his or her intellectual/ personality growth. This is due to the beauty, attractions and luxuries of the world. This is one side of the picture.
The other side which is more critical and alarming is that after reaching at maturity level (that may be different for different people), the sooner one understand that that beauty and charms against which his/her mind was shaped was quite rubbish, the better it is for his/ her self-discovery and personality growth. This recognition and its realization in everyday life gradually keeps refilling his/her heart, body and soul with a different type of beauty which is more genuine and the source of happiness that know no bounds. So the perpetual human quest ‘beauty’ is the chief source of self-discovery: first men and women acquire it with whole temptation and attraction and ten find that it was wrong and later they have to correct it and acquire a new one that is more real and genuine. This process is very painful but three is no otherwise. This is the chief source of trial for which God created whole humanity: Who does the most beautiful deeds (Al-Kahaf 18:6).
Now a successful personality construction demands that a person should turn to these attractions and luxuries of the world (and this is more serious in our times due to the advancement of knowledge and that indicates again a serious trial) in a way that doesn’t mar his or her relationship with his or her Creator and the rest of humanity.
This further indicates that the primary issue, to put in different words that better suits to the practical purposes) is the question of preference—which demand should be first fulfilled and then the second and the third?
Exercise
Devise out the ways and means to anchor yourself in a Different Environment. Change of the Place where you are Present: this can be done in different ways.
Stop Visiting the places You find the Source of Inciting Desires, Fears and Greed;
By Selecting new places and people which cause Minimum Damage to the Balance attained;
Less and less interaction with those engaged in Maximizing their Power and wealth unless there is some serious emergency but never at the cost of Halal and Harram prescribing the boundaries of God on earth.
Bring More and More Respite for Yourself
Keep yourself in the state of peace and calm
Make an increase in this period of peace
Ponder about the Universe and the various creations of Allah in it with the Purpose of viewing the light of God spreading in the universe;
The Best Way of doing this is to engage in Salath
So the change the period of respite into the period of prayer.
In your routine activities, note that how are you able to control your anger, malice and jealousy
Also note down that are you able to control your thinking, emotions and feelings
If You are able to Enjoy a degree of control, it is the sign of your going well
Don’t Worry, if your Controlling Power is less and less
Distance from the Type of world in which You are
Increase Your Devolution to God Almighty—the Best Way of doing this is to Strictly Abide by Halals and Harrams Commanded by God.
No matter, people including your near and dear ones want you do wrong
Struggle hard to live by the single and the only truth: God is one and alone and there is no one to be your friend and helper except God, the gracious creator and Cherisher of you. So you will ever be free from being the victim of a fixed turn of mind or crude rigidity, if you are able to keep yourself hitting hard with this knowledge: Except God, everything is the part of a deception unless it is able to be connected to god. If this connection fails, it means that it is devilish and thus needs to be thrown away in the rubbish
Make it the sole source of the determination of your personality and character: God is the only beauty and truth in life, justifying the existence of all forms of beauty and truths on earth.
